Pornography Addiction coach | Betrayal Trauma coachTina's Mindful Growth

About Tina‘s Mindful Growth

I offer help to people with unwanted sexual behaviors and or intimacy anorexia to live in solid recovery so they can find freedom and happiness in their relationships.

In addition, I provide inner child recovery process, to help with solid recovery.

Also, I provide support for betrayed partners in their healing from their tremendous trauma.

I offer couples work for a more intimate relationship. By that I mean emotionally, spiritually, physical and sexually.

I also offer help to better once's life with goal setting and accountability.

AASAT
Certificate Inner Child Recovery Process
Certificate Professional Life Coach

My Credentials

I am a certified Life Coach with extensive training in sexual addiction and betrayal trauma.
Betrayal Trauma and Sexual Addiction impacts clients from all walks of life . The impact Sexual addiction has on self and Partner is devastating and am very passionate in helping addicts as well as there partners.

My Credentials Include:

Certified Professional Life Coach (CPLC)
Certificate Inner Child Recovery Process Specialist, through Dr Eddie Capparucci .
Certified Partner betrayal trauma coach through AASAT
Certified. Sex Addiction coach through AASAT
Certified Intimacy anorexia coach through Dr. Doug Weis

Registered. coach at how we love by (HWL) Milan and Kay Yerkovich

About Tina‘s Mindful Growth for Betrayed Partners

For Betrayed Partners

You may....

...discover that your life is not what you thought it was.

...question what about your life is real.

...not know who your partner really is.

...not know what you should do.

...not know when to trust your intuition when it's telling you that something is wrong.

...feel like your spouse's infidelity and/or pornography use is about you or because you are lacking in some way.

Finding out that the person you trust the most is not who you thought they were, has betrayed you sexually, or has betrayed you in other ways is nothing short of traumatic. This is true regardless if it was solely porn, emotional or physical affairs, or other forms of acting out. As a betrayed partner your view of your life (past, present, and future) is brought into question as you try to determine what was real and what wasn't. Your nervous system is sent into overdrive as you try to seek safety and respond to the flood of emotions and triggers.

This trauma response in betrayed partners applies to both men and women.

Even if you have left a relationship with an addicted partner there is still a lot to heal. You may feel like people don't understand. It is a lot more complicated than relationships where couples "just grow apart". Betrayal trauma doesn't just disappear with a divorce. Pain that hasn't healed shows up in ways you least expect it. Be intentional about your healing just as you would if you were in a car accident that wasn't your fault. You still have to do the work if you want to fully recover and live your best life.

Let me help guide and support you on that emotional roller coaster ride.

How We Love

Did you know your last fight with your spouse began long before you met?

Relationship experts Milan and Kay Yerkovich taught me powerful tools of attachment theory. How the childhood created an "intimacy footprint' that affects the marriage today.

You will learn your love style.

Understand how your early life impacts you and your spouse..

Break free from painful patterns that keep you stuck.

Find healing for the source of conflict, not just the symptoms.

Create the close nurturing relationship you dream about.

Are you ready for a new journey of Love?

Sex/Porn Addiction services

Inner Child

The road to recover goes through your childhood.

Using Dr.Eddie Capparucci's model, we will work on understanding your inner child to help you gain the knowledge of how the inner child controls sexual compulsivity.

The inner child recovery process has the Ability to answer the “ why”question, promotes self reflection, reduces compulsive behaviors, teaches how to process painful emotions, encourages mindfulness, promotes healthy curiosity’s , moves individual’s to outward focus, improves emotional IQ, empowers clients .

Rather than just using tools to manage your addiction, you will learn how to connect and strengthen your inner child.

This will be one of the most helpful tools for you to achieve lasting sobriety and happiness in your life.

I am a Certified Inner Child recovery process specialist, and I would love the opportunity to guide you through your healing process.

Sex/Porn addiction

You gave up everything for one thing!

If you need help building a life of integrity and self-worth, I am here for you.
I would be honored to help you identify your strengths, overcome limiting beliefs, and develop behavioral strategies for achieving long term sobriety. I believe that coaching is a process of self-discovery, accountability, knowledge and support.

I would love the opportunity to accompany you on your recovery Journey.

Intimacy Anorexia

Intimacy Anorexia

Intimacy Anorexia

The main characteristics

According to Dr.Weiss, people with intimacy anorexia typically:

keep themselves busy with childcare, household tasks, errands, technology, or work
blame you for the loss of intimacy rather than explore potential patterns in their own behavior
avoid showing love in ways they know you appreciate
stop complimenting or praising you regularly
have little to no interest in physical intimacy
show little interest in connecting on a spiritual level, which could look like not wanting to attend church or pray together
avoid talking about their feelings, making it difficult to connect on an emotional level
treat you like a roommate, not a romantic partner
put you down, criticize you, or try to make you feel bad about yourself*
have angry outbursts, ignore you or give you the silent treatment, and stay angry over minor issues instead of working through anger productively*
control money by making you keep track of your purchases, preventing you from accessing funds yourself, or criticizing the amount you spend*

Dr. Weiss notes that not every sign will show up for people dealing with this issue. He suggests people with five or more of the above characteristics may need treatment.

I had extensive training from Dr. Doug Weiss and I can provide you with the treatment for a loving, intimate, safe relationship.